The Gilmore Girls alum reflected on the end of her decade-long relationship with Peter Krause in 2021, sharing the mindset she’s used as she moves forward. “I knew I was resilient because I always have been,” Graham told People in an interview published Nov. 2. The Mighty Ducks: Game Changers star said she refused to let the breakup get her down, so she turned to writing her upcoming book, Have I Told You Already? Stories I don’t want to forget to remember. “Somewhere in there is a year like this that I just won’t let go [the breakup] flatten me,” he said. “I was like, ‘Okay, well, look at all the good things I have and look at all the good times,’ and ‘I’m going to write this book.’ Thank God I have these outlets and these stories to tell.”